The frequency of narcissism is the frequency that mentally projects. It projects onto others, its trauma, its wounding, its hopes, its fears, its opinions, its desires.
Projection in this case doesn’t always mean it’s a negative thing, since this frequency can also project onto others its hopes & dreams, desires, & excitement; and that will still not be love, because to project onto others is to not love; it does not see the true will of the other.
Love sees and recognizes the true will of the other. So, ‘service to self’ and projecting that onto ‘other’ both vibrate within the lower frequency of narcissism.
Narcissism (and co-dependency) is a lower frequency pathway.
Narcissism mentally projects onto the other. It says, “the other isn’t more true than I am, or more real than I am, so he/she can submit and do ‘my’ will. If ‘I’ project whatever ‘I’ desire onto the other, whether it is for them to act in ‘my’ preferred way, or whether it is to have them do ‘my’ bidding, I am not acknowledging or honouring their will; I am projecting onto them ‘my’ will; whatever ‘I’ want”.
This is the core origins of narcissism.
Through the act of turning inward to seek the truth & recognize the vibration where we truly vibrate at. We lift our vibration by uniting inward with Divine Love. We detach our will from projecting & imposing it onto ‘other’; (from trying to change or control another), and, instead, we align it with our inner truth vibration. This is what it means to align with Divine Will.
Our true will is found within.
When we are truly ourselves in any present moment, we are focussing inward, in non-resistance to what is. We are not forcing or manipulating anyone, anything or any feeling to be a certain way. This is how we bring our vibration up and out of the lower frequencies and anchor ourselves in our home frequency of love.
Aligning ourselves with the higher vibration of Love, we align with inner freedom.
Love is freedom and connection (intimacy).
When we lift our vibration out of the sleep state of projection, the first thing we do is come into inner alignment with reality exactly as it is. This is an act of Self-Love.
The love we give to ourselves is the generousity we give to others. We can only give love to others if we have first given and received the frequency of love to ourselves.
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