Discard The Joker Card

Discard the joker card.

And stop being a stranger to yourself.

Be your Unique Card.

And be a friend to yourself. 

Stop being a social chameleon; 

Stop being the joker;

The stranger who has

No substance; No polarity. No self authority.

Go out into the world; 

Stop trying to live up to a vain standard of what is “good enough” in the eyes of others. 

BE your OWN ‘good enough’ to yourself.

Give no regard to the ones who reject you.

Give no regard to the ones who like you because you showed them the stranger.

They don’t see you because you know they can’t and never will.

They never will. 

GOOD! 

You never truly matched with them anyways.

You’ll eventually see the one

who sees you as YOU.

No more need to morph yourself & become their match when you’re not. 

Stay true to the Friend in You; in Your Heart.  

Be “just right” in your eyes alone.

Let your heart guide YOU as YOU. 

Be yourself. 

For real. 

Don’t dim your authentic expression as yourself.

You matter as YOU.  Not the joker stranger.

You will never matter as the joker to anyone, most importantly to YOU. 

You’re important as YOU, not a scammer.

If someone doesn’t like you, GOOD! 

Let them. 

If you don’t like someone, GOOD! 

Give yourself permission to let that land.

Take that in. 

Now you know who’s not meant for you. ….not a match! 

Rejection is healthy. 

Carry on!

You don’t wanna try & like anyone you don’t. 

You don’t want to try and be liked by anyone who can’t like the real you;

Who doesn’t match cards with you.

Give yourself the permission to walk away. 

Without apology.

In Faith & Trust. 

Keep going. 

Continue to share your preferences with who you meet; your opinions, your desires, your limits, your fears.

Be willing to face any rejection. 

It’s healthy. 

Its builds courage. Confidence. 

You’ve got YOU! 

If and when someone DOES show up and likes you, you can then trust that connection, because you showed up revealing your true CARD

Eureka!!

Now you know the relationship is a match.

Now you know for sure you can relax and build something real.

You CAN find that match, 

Because you found the match within your heart. 

All that is required is that you STAY with your True Friend and honour yourself as yourself.