“Being social”, “fitting in, and “blending in with the group” was never my true path, but I unconsciously made it my path most of my life because that’s the message I received growing up.
My true nature is most happy when I can attune to my own energy and in order to do that most effectively, I need a lot of alone time.
I never did need validation or acceptance from others, but the conditioning had me believe the complete opposite. “Think of others” they said. I ended up a chronic people pleaser. Today, I’m clear, and attuning to my Self, my Energy, and This Safety is healing my central nervous system.
Getting my emotional needs met are found within me now. I no longer out-source them. And that’s the most freeing thing I’ve discovered on my healing journey. And I don’t care what anyone says anymore about how humans need others to get their emotional needs met. Right now, I’m happy. And I’m standing on my own; alone. Feels like I’m truly living “off-the-grid”.