If you are willing to surrender your defending attitude, which is the 1st act of war, your accuser will have nothing to use against you, and you will set yourself free from every war.
Say “thank you” to your accusers for showing you the shadow names they are calling you. This takes courage.
Your accusers are not your real enemies; your addiction to war is.
Your addiction of defending against “an accuser & his words” begins every war inside you.
Embrace these shadow names instead and forgive them.
Agree that you have exhibited the names they are calling you.
Agree with your accuser that they are right with any shadow name they are calling you.
Thank your accuser for showing you the shadow-names that you were afraid to see inside you.
Surrender your defence-strategies of denial & self-righteous pride.
Surrender your addiction to defend with a one-sided position.
Surrender your addiction to defend with an argument.
Surrender your addiction to defend with a drawn-out discussion.
Surrender your addiction to defend with an excuse.
Surrender your addiction to defend with a story.
Surrender your addiction to defend with “being right”.
Surrender your grasp on all false perceptions of separation.
Lay your game-weapons down and admit that you won’t deny any name.
Admit that you are willing to embrace any name in the book because they all have existed within you at some point.
Admit to the existence of all names in all wars, and you will remember that all wars end with you when you realize that no name defines YOU.
Remember to choose Peace and you will protect yourself from getting stuck in war.
Nina’s Nuances 