Rights & Responsibilities On How To Be A Grown-Up.
I am not responsible for meeting your inherent needs.
I will not rescue you, enable you, advise you, correct you, change you, or guilt you, etc.
You are responsible for meeting your own inherent needs for love, appreciation, empowerment, attention, trust, honesty, respect, safety, security, connection & support.
This is your key to happiness.
It is your duty, right, & privilege to be inspired how you might meet them for yourself, & the pace at which you will go.
I can inspire & encourage you by holding safe space & asking you how you could anchor your desires & what they might look like in the world. You are under no pressure to please me.
If I am unable to inspire or help you, it is your right & responsibility to find someone who can. It is also your choice to do nothing. It is none of my business.
You are always free to change your mind. I am always free to do the same.
You are not responsible for meeting my inherent needs.
I will overlook your attempts at rescuing, enabling, advising, correcting, changing or placing guilt me etc.
I am responsible for meeting my own inherent needs for love, acceptance, appreciation, attention, trust, empowerment, honesty, respect, safety, security, connection & support.
This is my key to happiness.
It is my duty, right, & privilege to be inspired how I might meet them for myself & at the pace at which I will go.
You can inspire & empower me by holding safe space & asking me how I might anchor my desires & what they might look like in the world. I am under no pressure to please you.
If you are unable to inspire or help me, it is my right & responsibility to find someone who can. It is also my choice to do nothing. It is none of your business.
I am always free to change my mind. You are always free to do the same.
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You choose your energy & behavior. It doesn’t depend on me.
I choose my energy & behavior. It doesn’t depend on you.
The choice is ours when & how to get ourselves inspired, embrace life, follow our true desires & get our own needs met.
Being a grown-up means experiencing true peace, freedom, balance, grace, ease, joy, playfulness, fulfillment & wisdom.
We encourage each other and love one another. No one is left behind.